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Thursday, June 29, 2017

Epic Anklets and Soccer on the Beach



Hey Everyone!

I had a ton of fun this week, and we were super busy! Busy is always good in missionary work! Lots of stuff is happening, and Elyzza passed her baptismal interview! She'll be getting baptized next Saturday! My Malay is coming really fast, and I'm going ham on the memorizing vocab., so that's pretty awesome. I don't know all I need to yet, but I still have a month and a half before I need to really be good at speaking Malay.

Last Monday, we went and played soccer on this field right on the beach. It was awesome. Perfect view, tons of fun.  Lots of young men and us 4 missionaries packed into one car and drove down. It was awesome. After that, we went over to Christopher's, and had an awesome lesson on the Plan of Salvation about the premortal life and our purpose on earth. Then we put him on date! His two little girls were going crazy, but we still got the spirit there.

Tuesday, we went over to a less active member's house. She was making this INSANE anklet out of beads. It looked way cool. I couldn't believe that it was possible to make an anklet like that. Elder Mickelson is obsessed with anklets, so I think he's going to try to buy one off of her. Haha!  It was fun to go over there! Their dog is insane. He jumped up onto us and tried playing with us, but we were trying to talk with them.  He was going extra crazy so that we'd pay attention to him. After that, we stopped by the Kong's house. Elder Mickelson and I found them in my first week I think.  They didn't really want to meet much the first time we talked with them (I couldn't speak any Malay when I met them the first time), but when we stopped over, they totally invited us to come back over and teach in 2 days!  That was pretty crazy!

Wednesday was tons of fun. I went on exchanges with Elder Thompson. He has a week left of his mission, so that's pretty crazy. He's way cool.  We went up to a place called Clemena, which is basically Sungai Plan, just in a different place. Tons of flats, and a lot of members live there. It was a ton of fun. We were visiting an inactive member that everyone calls King Kong--no idea why.  This crazy old lady came up to us and said she thought one of her friends was a member of our church.  We found her name on the branch directory, and asked the old lady where she lived since they didn't have an address on the directory, so we went and met with them. They hadn't seen the missionaries in 5 years, and the daughter literally reads the Book of Mormon every single day still. She's finished it a few times, and is reading it again. Isn't that crazy??? They haven't been to church in 5 years, haven't seen the missionaries in 5 years, and STILL read the Book of Mormon every day. Unbelievable.

ALSO, while I was on exchanges, Sylvester's dad died, so he went back to Kampung, and Matthew John is totally dating a Muslim girl. UNBELIEVABLE. If he marries her, he's forced to convert to Islam, and then he can't even learn about our church.  He has a huge desire to be baptized. SOOOO we're probably going to go over there and see if we can get him to realize that since he already knows our church is true, it's really dumb of him to convert to Islam to marry this girl... we'll see what happens there.

Thursday, we went over to Elyzza's and reviewed her baptismal questions, and she did a really good job! The only thing we had to work on was how she explained repentance. When we asked what repentance was, she just said pray. Then we had to ask a bunch of questions to clarify what you do in your prayer and stuff. Haha! She's hilarious. But yeah, that was tons of fun! Later that night, we went to Matthew John's to slap some sense into him through the Holy Ghost, but his older brother was the only one in his house, so we taught him! He seemed pretty cool, but he's always driving trucks across Malaysia, and can't meet regularly.  We'll see how that one goes.

Friday, we wanted to follow up with one of our new investigators, Hallory.  We went to his house, and he wasn't home, but his wife was home, and she had some friends over. One of her friends was super weird. She refused to speak Malay with us. She only spoke English.  We spoke Malay, she spoke English, and it was SUPER hard to not switch into English. I would always mix in a few words here and there, but I tried really hard to not. Haha!  She said that if Elder Mickelson's girlfriend broke up with him, he should come back and marry her. She was about 45 years old. Hahaha! Pretty funny. That's a common occurrence to have people ask the missionaries to marry them. So be careful who you ask if they have anything you can help with.

Later, on Friday, we went and taught Ellaine. We taught about the Atonement, and it was crazy. While we were teaching, I looked up, and I thought that I saw tears in Ellaine's eyes, but I just decide I was just seeing things.  Then we flipped to a picture of Jesus on the cross, and she just BURST into tears. She's a 9-year-old girl with special needs, and she TOTALLY understands the Atonement. More than anyone! She literally started bawling because Jesus died. Haha! Elder Mickelson and I didn't know what to do. We just flipped to the pictures of Jesus being resurrected, and then slowly she stopped crying, but it was pretty cool. I didn't think she even understood half the things we taught. But she totally understood it!

Saturday, we went over to the Kong's house, and it was fun to see them all again. Especially the guy that told us to call him Handsome Boy. He's way funny.  Handsome Boy brought his girlfriend to his house, and we taught both of them. Handsome Boy isn't very interested, but his girlfriend was! So that's cool! They live in Mukah, so we'll pass them over once they leave. We also taught a mission prep class, and it was fire. I think the youth are going to get way into missionary work if they keep coming. We just barely started it, so it could have a ton of success. I'm excited to see where it goes.  That night, we met with Cecilia. She's finally comfortable praying! She wouldn't pray for a long time, but now when we ask her to pray, she'll close lessons for us! So that's super great!

Sunday was fun. It's always fun. Not a ton happened. The Kong’s invited us over again for lunch, and they made some KILLER fried rice. Way good. I ate the entire bowl full. Oh, that's another thing. This week, I've been WAY hungry. Every single day when I finish meals, I'm still super hungry. It's been a struggle. I haven't felt full all week... But that's ok! I'm eating way more than I normally do. It just doesn't make me full. So maybe I'm growing or something. Not sure. Maybe I'll grow a foot or two finally!

Pretty much all of the church material (like books and magazines and stuff) is in Indonesian, and because Indonesian is so close to Malay, they just read it. BUT. Some crazy twisting of the language happens every now and then. For example. The word for need in Indonesian is the equivalent of the F word in English. SO. Reading books and stuff in church is extremely dangerous. Just think how many times you say need in church. Like if you need to follow the Savior or need to do what’s right.  Every single time you read it, you have to replace it with a different word.  If you don't replace it with a different word, you're saying a super bad swear word. And that's my life. Every single Sunday. It's a bit terrifying to read in church, because I’ve got to make sure that I really pay attention and  that it doesn't say ‘need’ in anything I'm reading. Elder Mickelson almost messed up once yesterday, so that's why I decided to write about it.

I love being here in Malaysia! It's tons of fun, and the work is going strong! We're having lots of success, and my Malay is getting better and better every single week! Thanks for all the emails!

Love,

Elder Ben Mullins


Alma 63:5-8


Anna




Odd...the bathroom door is on the outside of the room




Biggest phone ever (must be the newest Samsung S8)




Cecilia and Fam




A chubby baby (Chubbers)




Cicil




Elyzza and Anna




Henry and Jackson



Menulis



I survived the MTC!  Ha Ha!






Gettin' Those Melchizedek Priesthood Holders



Hey Everyone!

This week was AWESOME. Tons of super awesome things happened, and the banshee beetles are coming back out. I saw like 6 or 7 dead ones this week, so I took a picture of one! It was a busy week now that Gawai is over, and we've been working hard to keep up with all the stuff that's been happening!

Tuesday, for some reason, nobody was home. All of our appointments cancelled, and everyone was gone except for our branch president. We stopped by and talked with President Jalil, and got some super delicious crocodile tongues. Oh yeah, that's a thing there. We eat crocodile tongues.  They taste WAY good, especially if they put on enough powdered sugar.  After that, we went around and visited some less actives. We cleared two blocks of inactives/less actives. We met a ton of the youth's friends that weren't members! Apparently, a lot of the inactive people moved. Soooooo we have a whole new set of PI's to go through now! One super funny thing happened. We stopped to check a text we got, and Elder Mickelson was looking at a door.  There was a sticker on the door that said "Seventh Day Adventist Church Remember the Sabbath Day to keep it holly." They spelled holy wrong. SO I just HAD to take a picture.  Right as I went to take the picture, they opened their door and saw me taking a picture with their door.  I just walked away super-fast with Elder Mickelson. I got a picture of the door later though! Pretty awesome. I'll send it!

Wednesday, we had something awesome happen. Several weeks ago, we had a guy named Matthew John call us.  He told us he wants to be baptized.  Over the next few weeks, he started giving us referrals and saying that they wanted to be baptized too.  We finally got one of those referral's phone numbers. His name is Christopher. We set an appointment with him, and taught him.  He's mega prepared! He's gonna get dunked for sure. He was super awesome. We're going to try to get his wife to start learning too. He has two super cute little girls that are 6 and 4, and SUPER wild. It was a ton of fun to get to know them. We also taught Elyzza about tithing, and she really liked it. She was counting all of her money the other day because we taught her about it. Haha!

Thursday, we taught Christopher the entire restoration since we talked about the Godhead the day before. He ate up the restoration, and was pumped to read the Book of Mormon.  I think he really likes reading.  He had read an entire Jehovah's Witness pamphlet before, so he's really interested in religion. I don't think I could make it through one of those things. They're like 100 pages long. ANYWAY. Had a solid lesson, and got a return appointment with his wife. After him, we went to Elyzza's to follow up on her reading really quick.  She had just been studying the Law of Chastity pamphlet we had given her. She's 9 years old.  When we asked her if she had any questions for us, she said she had one.  We told her to fire away! Her question was "What does committing adultery mean?" Elder Mickelson and I looked at each other and looked back to her. We had tried to explain it in really simple terms like 4 or 5 times before, but she'd always just ask it again.  We finally gave her a final answer. “Don't sleep with boys.” She got a worried look on her face, and said that she slept with her little brother and her uncle Roslan (basically her older brother. He's one of the youth in the branch. I think he's like 15) every night. Hahaha! We told her it's ok as long as they're family. Pretty funny girl.

Friday, we FINALLY met with Matthew John. We had some time after our last lesson of the night, and decided to drop by.  He finally wasn't drunk. It had been WEEKS since he had called and said he wanted to be baptized.  I think he swore off of drinking.  We had a solid lesson, and I'm not gonna lie, Matthew John is the most prepared person I have ever met in my entire life. Well... maybe it's a tie between him and Elliott. Literally asking us if they can be baptized... Haha!  We put him on date, and I'm fairly confident he'll make it! As long as he stops drinking for good! We can help him as long as we can meet with him while he's not drunk. Other than that, Sylvester got back from Kampung, and he hasn't smoked in about two and a half weeks!!!  Once he comes to church 2 more times, he can get baptized! He's way solid. He'll be an awesome member. I can't wait for that. I hope that Elder Mickelson stays here so that he can be here when Sylvester is baptized!

Saturday, we were going to visit a member, and we looked across the flats.  Matthew John and Christopher were right in front of Christopher's house.  We went over there, and only had 10 minutes. , but we went in, and followed up on all the commitments we gave them! They had just been hanging out, and Matthew needed a haircut, so Christopher and him went and bought a haircutting kit for 10 ringgit (2 US Dollars) and gave Matthew a haircut! So now I think I know where we're going for our haircuts!  After that, we visited Sylvester's friend, Nathaniel. We knocked on the door, took our shoes off, and went in the house. They are Roman Catholic. VERY Roman Catholic. They had pictures of Jesus and Mary all over the walls--literally not an empty space.  On top of all of that, they had a picture of 3 men in catholic robes.  We asked if his dad was a priest or something. He said it was his pastor.  He literally has a picture of his preacher in his house hanging up. Nobody in his family is even in the picture. Haha!  We were a little worried about how he would accept our message. His family wasn't home.  It was just him.  We started teaching the restoration, and I felt the most comfortable I've ever felt while teaching in Malay. Instead of thinking of what I was going to say in English, and translating it to Malay, I just spoke Malay! It was awesome! And the lesson was SOLID. Nathaniel is a super smart guy, and figured it out, and it really hit home that he had to ask God which church was the true church!  Nathaniel turned out to be MEGA solid. Now we’ve just got to make sure he doesn't get antied! We made sure he knew that people would tell him it wasn't true, but he had to ask God if he wanted to know. I think he has a ton of potential. Especially since he's Sylvester's really good friend.  We finished the lesson, and I walked outside, put on my one shoe, and started looking for the other. Literally gone. Someone (probably a dog) stole one of my shoes... Straight up GONE. We searched for a while, but didn't find anything. SO. I was short a shoe. Nathaniel loaned me a pair of sandals, and I wore those for a while until we could get home and pick up my second pair of shoes! My shoes were already destroyed, and I was going to buy another pair in a month, but I guess I'll just have to find a new pair sooner!

Sunday, we went to church, and had a lot of investigators there!   Before that, Jatasia asked us if we could help her bring all the kids to church so that Elyzza could come to church! Normally, Elyzza has to watch all the kids while her mom and grandparents work, so she can't come.  We brought all the kids she has to watch with us!  Jatasia was carrying her little girl Anna, Elyzza was carrying her little sister, and I held her little brother's hand, and we all walked to church together! It was lots of fun! Half way though, Elyzza's little sister was slipping out of her arms, so she hoisted her up so she could carry her again, and then after a few seconds, said "barak..." which means poop. Her little sister had diarrhea, and when she hoisted her up, it alllllll came out, and then squeezed out of her diaper, and all over Elyzza. Hahaha! So Elyzza set down the little girl, and ran home to change and to get her little sister a change of clothes too! Hahaha!  Her little sister just stood there. Straight up, for 5 minutes, didn't move a muscle. It was hilarious. She didn't want to move around with a poopy diaper I guess. So I took a picture with her and Anna!  Once Elyzza got back, we continued walking to church, but Elyzza didn't want to get the poop on her again.  Jatasia was already carrying Anna, and Elder Mickelson and I aren't allowed to carry kids. Elder Mickelson and I each grabbed one hand of the little girl, and lifted her up and carried her by her hands to church! Haha! She started not liking it, so we set her down and she walked the rest of the way! It was raining, and that little girl LOVED splashing through all the puddles of water on the way to church! We would go into the middle of the road to avoid the puddles, but the little girl just splashed right through them and had a huge smile on her face. It was adorable.

In the middle of Sacrament Meeting, Valentino, an 18-year-old that we talked to a week or so ago, came to church! It was crazy! I couldn't believe it! He just walked in and sat down with all the youth! I guess the youth invited him to come, and he remembered meeting us, and came!  We'll be teaching him really soon I hope!  That night, we met with Jatasia's brother-in-law, Hallory. He's pretty funny. He and his wife just barely had their fourth kid, and we decided now was the time to strike. Haha! He's awesome. I think he'll get baptized eventually. He just learns pretty slow, and we can only meet once a week, but he's got potential for sure!

Thanks for all the emails! I love you all! I hope you have an awesome week! Today we're going to go to the beach, then pick up our mail down in the city after! So that'll be fun!

Love,

Elder Ben Mullins

Banshee Beetle




 
Elyzza's sister and Anna

Fly new Shirts




My only shoe




District Lunch







The Door that Opened--Keep the Sabbath day 'holly'